"For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life."
2 Corinthians 9:7
"Each one must give as he has decided in his heart, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver."
James 1:17
"Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights with whom there is no variation or shadow due to change."
Some people might think that this love language is equivalent to materialism. It’s not. For people who speak this love language, it's not the monetary value of the gift that is the most important. It's the intention behind the gift. The act of giving gifts is the language itself, from the time and resources you've put in choosing the best one to how you handed the gift, and beyond.
If you're wondering whether your partner's primary love language is receiving gifts, here are some telltale signs:
1. He or she is also a gift-giver.
2. Your partner enjoys giving gifts and does well in picking lovely personalized gifts for every occasion.
3. He or she enjoys shopping. It's more like a treat for them than a task.
4. Your partner values the gifts you give him or her. Even though those things were from decades ago!
Here is the link to the YouTube video below: https://youtu.be/bVmoVO6WjX0
The reason I am doing all these Love Languages is I've been asked by many people to explain these especially around this time of year when many are searching for gifts for those they love.
With thousands of items to choose from, finding the perfect gift for your partner can be extra challenging. It might take you a bit of time, but once you find the right gift, it’s going to be worth it. If you’re clueless about how and where to start, check out these popular gift ideas for men and women:
- You’ve heard it since time immemorial - diamonds are girls’ best friend. When it comes to women's gifts, you won't find a resource not talking about diamonds. All women love diamond jewelry, whether it's a simple gold necklace, an elegant ring, a pair of stud earrings, or a statement diamond bracelet. What’s more, diamonds have always been associated with love. It’s known as the universal symbol of “eternal love”, “commitment”, and “marriage.” It's always a good idea to make your loved one feel like she's the most stunning woman in the world by making her dazzle in her diamond jewelry.
- Who says jewelry gifts are only for women? If your partner’s language of love is gift-giving, he’ll definitely appreciate a beautiful piece of jewelry too. Men's rings, necklaces, beaded bracelets, leather cords, and luxury watches are among the most popular picks. Accessories like shoes, scarves, men’s ties, and wallets are also great options. When it comes to gifts, men pay more attention to the quality of the item more than anything else.
Thankfully, there are staples in the gifting world that men and women are bound to love, regardless of their age or personality. For women, it’s diamond jewelry that symbolizes “eternal love”. For men, it can be anything from jewelry to high-quality clothing and apparel.
What’s your love language? What about your partner’s? Consider applying the secret language of relationships and you will be amazed at how it can transform your marriage and friendships.
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