"I was no prophet, neither was I a prophet's son; but I was a herdsman, and a farmer of sycamore figs; and the LORD took me from following the flock, and the LORD said to me, 'Go, prophesy to my people Israel.'
When we are young and experience abandonment or rejection, the probability of having trust issues, outburst of anger, and attachment problems, in adulthood is very high. But, just because we once experienced this, or have a tendency to this, does not give us a life sentence. Jesus Christ is our healer and our deliverer, and He can, and will do just that. However, it will take hard work and learning some new ways of processing information, so we are not controlled by our past; but use our past to propel us into our destiny that Christ has for us.
In the chart below see if you can locate yourself? I see myself as Ambivalent Attachment. It took me awhile to study each of these types out and I am by no means an expert--yet! I am set to know this subject better than anyone because I want to help set people free and equip them to go and do the same for others.