What you believe and how you see affects you and those around you. God had a very different plan for this woman and her son than what she saw.
1 Kings 17:13-14 Elijah said to her, “Don’t be afraid. Go home and do as you have said. But first make a small loaf of bread for me from what you have and bring it to me, and then make something for yourself and your son. For this is what the Lord, the God of Israel, says: ‘The jar of flour will not be used up and the jug of oil will not run dry until the day the Lord sends rain on the land."
Change always starts with a decision. If you can live with yourself the way you are, you are probably not going to change.
Action Step: Do the last thing God told you to do! He is thinking about you, even when you are not thinking about Him.