As I sit here this morning myself learning something new my first task at hand (for we Type A's=hard driving Cholerics) is to relax. We are not going to permanently destroy the universe and there are very few problems that can't be fixed. So number one--relax. The next thing we need to do is to find someone who is patient in that area or well versed in that area. The reason we look for those key people qualities is that they either are laid back enough to be patient with us or they know it so well that they can remain calm and understand our frustrations.
Hope this helps someone out there. This is just an added "thinking of you" Remarkable Blog.