Love verses worthlessness and shame.

What does Bible say about shame?
O my God, in you I trust; let me not be put to shame; let not my enemies exult over me. Indeed, none who wait for you shall be put to shame; they shall be ashamed who are wantonly treacherous. Make me to know your ways, O Lord; teach me your paths. Lead me in your truth and teach me, for you are the God of my salvation; for you I wait all the day long. ...

When a person has been abandoned they feel worthless and aw though what happened was their fault; so they have shame. This makes intimacy very hard if not impossible without the healing of Father God. 

Abandonment can occur when a parent confides in his or her child or expects a child to take on age-inappropriate responsibilities. Abandonment happens when children are unfairly treated or in some way given a message that they or their experience is unimportant or wrong. Then, as adults, we become afraid of intimacy.  Here is the link to the video below if it does not show up below or view in your Browser: https://youtu.be/G0mEwMhYRPY​

ACTION STEP:  After you watch the video above ask yourself the hard questions and take the steps to be free. Pre-pave the way to drive on in intimacy. Get your control back. Start that's the hardest part. Start receiving the small complements and just learn to say, "Thank you." God is a good God. God is a God of faith, love and safety. God wants to be intimate with us. As we let Him in, we crack the door for others to be accepted into our heart.

I believe in you and I want you to believe in yourself!