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Older and Wiser

2/17/2015

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At twenty we worry about what others think of us. At forty we don’t care about what others think of us. At sixty we discover they haven’t been thinking about us at all. If I knew then, what I know now I could have enjoyed my life a whole lot more. When we are young we spend a lot of time thinking about things that really don’t matter on the back drop of eternity.  You know what I wish?  I wish an older wiser person would have sat me down and shared with me the important things in life.  I wonder if I would have heard. Could they have gotten my attention or would I have not been interested? Today I am. Today I realize the importance of having someone older and wiser to share with me what they know. So here is something I would have wanted someone to share with me; and now that I am the older wiser one, come sit for a spell. I have something to tell you.

Family matters.  No matter what you go through and how many differences you may have with them, they remain-family.  That being said, it is important to make memories together and do life together.  One of the greatest ways to do this is to have traditions.  Family vacations and photos that you take every year in the same place for example are great reminders and so much fun years down the road.  Rent a house with all your siblings and eat Thanksgiving together or rent a house at the beach with lots of bedrooms and let all the cousins stay up all night and make a tent and play with flashlights.  It is not so much what you do, but that you do it together and take lots of photos.

Time goes faster than you think it will.  Moments today become memories of tomorrow, in the blink of an eye. That’s one thing I would tell a young person. What about you, what would you tell them? Send me a comment and who knows you may find it posted right here.

Genesis 32:9 (NKJV)  “Then Jacob said, “O God of my father Abraham and God of my father Isaac, the Lord who said to me, ‘Return to your country and to your family, and I will deal well with you:”

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Joan Courtney
2/16/2015 10:04:23 pm

I always told my daughter not to sweat the small stuff. In the grand scheme of things, if it won't matter in 5 years or even more it is not worth getting upset about. Life is too short.

When I was 12, our family home was destroyed by fire while we were away visiting my grandmother. The one thing we missed the most out of all we lost were the pictures of our times together: Christmas mornings, birthdays, my Dad's service picture, pictures of my parent's, grandparents and siblings, family reunions, pets, my favorite family car...so many memories. Pictures do mean a lot, but the memories we have in our heart is what can't be taken away.

I would tell the younger generation to make the memories good ones and stay close to your family because we can't go back and do it all over.

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Carolyn Feathers
2/17/2015 12:01:34 am

The biggest regret I have is advice for Mothers. Spend time with your children. As you mentioned, time goes by so quickly and before you know it they are grown. When I was a single Mother for two years, I got caught up in myself and didn't take the time I should have with my son. After I remarried, my main focus was on my career. You can never get back those years. All I can do now is be the best Mother and grandmother I can be from a distance.

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Samantha Blevins
2/18/2015 11:39:13 am

I would encourage young people to live a life of no regrets.
There are no "do overs" in this game of life.
"Be present" and make the most of every moment.

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