Once we get connected the other connections that are good for us will get stronger. The connections that are sucking life out of us and causing us to live defeated, depressed and destitute will be severed because of the choices we will make. The Bible tells us that when we are weak He is strong. The power of God goes to work producing what the Word of God promises.
This week try reading just a few verses. Start reading in 1 John and then work your way through 1,2,3, John. Let the Word work on you. Then go out and do something for someone else. See if you don't feel better about yourself and about your situation.
God is a good God and He wants to bless you.