When we come to Christ and begin to read His word we may be a bit confused about what the word says. This is why we need teachers and preachers in our life. We need to come to church not for our religious duty but because the Word tells us to. (Hebrews 10:25)
When we come to church it is like taking a shower, eventually the Word will wash us clean. When we come to church it is like eating and, it may take a while to get well and regain our spiritual strength.
Compromising to get our needs met will only hurt ourselves and then, we will hurt others. I want to encourage you to be who God created YOU to be! The only way that you will find the true you--the person God created you to be is through the power of Jesus Christ.
Choose life! Deuteronomy 30:19 "This day I call the heavens and the earth as witnesses against you that I have set before you life and death, blessings and curses. Now choose life, so that you and your children may live."