"An intelligent heart acquires knowledge, and the ear of the wise seeks knowledge."
Becoming an expert in a field is not always by choice. If you have been violated or abandoned, rejected, attacked, molested....you know what it feels like. You know what the after effects are. You know how that moment or moments are forever etched in your brain. You know how it affects every decision you have made since that instance occurred. You are the expert. But, just knowing all those things can't help you or anyone else. You and I have got to take it a step further and become educated on the subject. We need to find out the, "What now?" We need to pick ourselves up and become the very best at helping ourselves first, and when we get good at that, start helping others. When the blind lead the blind, they both fall in the ditch. Sick people, make people sick. Well people, whole people, can help heal the sick. Once you know the directions on how to get from point A to point B, you can help someone else navigate the journey. God can use you right where you are, but the more healed you become, the more you know Him and let Him into your situation the more useful you become.
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